It is considered good form to blame Rozhanu categorically. However, the deeper I dig, the more I realize that many issues parous gentle and tender, as a loving mother and daughter unreasonable. For example, in a lecture to prepare for conception in order to achieve the best results, it is strongly recommended to have the wedding for those who have it not. Especially does not frighten you, just say that it is better to do it and some have explained why. And last Wednesday, I opened another deeper reason for weddings and the importance of the transition.
Do you think that I have already written about this? Yes, she wrote, and the like already gone through this and put her knowledge, but I did not know that it's even worse and even more categorically. I did not give birth, so I have no reason to sweeten the pill, and sausage me for almost a week, so I will share with you, maybe let go.
Girl-woman Galina Voronchenkovoy, side woman
I knew that the doll — it's not just a cloth that you can use them to understand something, to feel, to know yourself. But as much as I felt it the first time. She walked me on a very hard, and not only to me, while discussing the image, which is a doll, until done, and people had time to tease and cry and weather the storm of feelings. But at least she turned out at all, in the past year, two women in a similar group of this doll does not come out (one had a husband and children, the other grandchildren have been).
But the essence is that doll. Girl — elegant, beautiful, with a scythe, with a ribbon — all out, shows itself in all its glory, in all its power the world. She does it for a reason, its task to find her boyfriend, draw it, and the restriction to be a match for her, and have the same strength as the bride. Only then will they be able to form a happy couple, and therefore puts herself on display to all.
Then turned inside hem, girl hiding inside, and outside there is a woman. It is more modestly dressed in a scarf, clothes quiet tones. But the force of something Devkina will not go away, only now there is no need to show it to anyone, the power saved for myself, for my husband, for my family, it's always there inside.
Now the society imposes on the woman that she must always be a girl: slim figure, nice clothes and attractive at any age, and if already age does not allow the surgeon to help. The modern woman is a lifetime at the fair bride. One has only to have a woman as she begins to care about the figure, although the tasks it is more up to 9 months and she had to eat as well as pregnant. And so in all, gave birth — as soon as possible back to the state the girls, that is to continue doberemennomu lifestyle — malodets. (I say nothing of the fact that after the wedding, most do not change their way of life.)
But as a result of the functions of the women: a wife, a mother, being a girl to deal fails, self-awareness should be different attitude to themselves, to the world, to her husband, children should be different. When making dolls, you could see how women are angry, making the woman. For me, the key finding was that Devkina power is not going away, that it always remains.
On the same day I was talking with her friend, advisor HS (breastfeeding), who is now working with a psychologist about nevynashivaemoy pregnancy. And they came to this conclusion: if the husband, marriage, child (mature on hormones), left work, which assumed trips and presentations, there has been a transition from the girls in a woman. A girl does not bear children and not breastfeeding. So, if a woman did not take a woman, then the pregnancy can not take place or it does not make it, and if the birth, the mothers will be no joy for her and her crowd HS counselors will help.
Here … I'll translate the spirit. This is what I'm trying to put in my head.
We worship the girls, and it is not surprising that there are great problems with pregnancy, childbirth, motherhood. Delaney doll girl-pregnant woman in courses (and even better in preparation for conception) could be a good diagnosis of readiness for motherhood. In the process of its creation can understand what's causing the rejection reason. Now I'm going to make this doll for as long as it does not start, I get easily (yes, I just with the woman was not a problem, I seriously was a girl, but that's another story.)
But modern wedding increases the probability of transition, but does not guarantee that it will take place, because women do not realize what they are doing, why they need it, life after marriage does not change. This is a way of life trying to save during pregnancy and after birth. From this perspective, the recommendation of the wedding erysipelas — a little way to increase the probability of conceiving and carrying a healthy baby, maybe someone pereschelknet.
Not for nothing was previously thought that the life of a man three important events: birth, death and marriage, which combines the first two. And getting ready for the wedding, respectively, they played only in the wedding, playing different moments. Girl with 7 to 12 years to think through your wedding dress (doll on vyhvalku made several), only after the doll was a success and the girl showed her in all that she had learned during training mistress, she was allowed to sit at the sewing dress himself, shirt groom dowry. At the wedding of up to 100 zones, 100 pairs of socks (knitted socks), 100 pairs of mittens give away. And this is also the bride did. If it is almost his whole life preparing for the wedding, with the support of others, with the knowledge of rituals, so something had to switch. Against the background of such training, even half a year already look pale.