March 19, 2012 19:30
Karma is the effect of past lives in connection with real life. The related term of the Western tradition, used to describe a similar effect — fate. Now, not all belong to the karma too seriously, but are interested in very many. To believe or not to believe in all these "astrological things" of karma, past and future lives — the case of each of you. But suddenly the knowledge can be helpful?
"Six months ago, I divorced her husband … I had a pretty deep feelings, but after some time we have left on his own initiative. When a psychic wound dragged on, I tried to objectively look at our relationship and she knew that as a wife he does not suit me — different personalities, views on life … But this time, I periodically covers a strong feeling that we should not have to give up that way quickly as it came from us. What we do not Doda much to each other. And sometimes visit me a strong feeling that if we interrupt our relationship for good, then find something very irreparable … ".
This is an excerpt from a letter from a woman who wanted to get advice on astrology.
Every astrologer familiar with the eastern area of astrology knows that many meetings with people in everyday life is not random and carry the karmic nature. Some evidence suggests that these karmic meetings in my life may be many. Coming into this world, we are surrounded by people who help us to realize their karmic problem. It our children, friends, relatives, bosses, co-workers and just passers.
But now I would not want to talk about all the karmic meetings, but about the karmic relations between men and women. They are understood the relationship between the partners, who knew each other in past lives and survived the deep emotions towards each other. Sign karmic relationship lies in the fact that he or she, or maybe both, are unresolved emotions within yourself, such as jealousy, anger, guilt, fear, dependency, or something similar. Unable to find a way out once their emotions, they are attracted to each other in the next incarnation.
The purpose of the new meeting is to give each other the opportunity to resolve overdue. It does this by recreating the same situation for a certain period of time. Meet again, karmic partners urgently need to get closer to each other, and after a while they start to repeat their old emotional role. Now the scene is set so as to meet again with the old situation and may deal with it more wise manner. Spiritual purpose of this meeting is for both lovers to make a different choice than they did in past lives.
Here is an example. Imagine a woman whose last incarnation was a very jealous man, the usurper, who madly in love with her, but at the same time tormented her with his jealousy. At some point she decided that it was unbearable to live and left him. Not having gone through a divorce with his beloved wife, the husband after a while ill and dies. Woman feels remorse. She believes that the blame. Regrets that he did not give him a chance to improve. With this feeling of guilt, it goes through the rest of his life. In another life, they meet again. Between them there is an inexplicable attraction. Initially man extraordinarily charming, she gets in the center of his attention. He worships her. They tied a relationship …
Since then, it becomes incredibly jealous owner. He constantly suspects her of infidelity. She is angry and upset that he blames her for nothing, it also feels strange obligation to forgive him and give him another chance. She thinks that he has psychological complexes — the fear of abandonment, and expects to help him cope with it. It justifies their behavior this way, but in fact it can disrupt their personal territory. Relationships negatively affect her self-esteem. The correct choice for women would end the relationship and go their own way without guilt. "Complexes" her husband (fiance, lover) are not its responsibility.
The value of new karmic meeting to a woman has learned go without guilt, a man must learn stoically endure emotional distress. The only right decision here — break the relationship. "Error", admitted a woman in a past life, not in the fact that she left her husband, and that she felt responsible for his illness and death. Care of his wife in this life once again leave her husband alone with his feelings and fears, which will give him a new opportunity to meet with these emotions, and not run away from them. Karmic relationship between the two will be repeated for as long as the lesson will not be passed correctly.
I am often asked — how can you identify a karmic relationship and can I do it? You can ask the astrologer. Professional astrologer can determine this by analyzing the synastry partners (horoscope compatibility.)
Indicators of karmic relationships
Indicator karmic relations can be defined and the age difference between partners.
- The difference in the age of 5 or 10 years between a man and a woman — is quite nonrandom meeting. More than likely, that among these partners there karmic connection, which requires working off of debts. Karma keeps them next to each other. They have to go on living in the same direction, but one of them should take the role of a guide, and the other must be the slave. The difference in the age of 15 — figure is very strong karmic attraction. So people find it difficult to separate, even if they choose to do so. But these complex relationships — they either help each other to choose the right path in life, or, conversely, knock his partner from grace, thus increasing his karmic debts in life expectancy.
Indicator of karmic relationships are some unusual situations. Such situations are not obligatory sign of karmic relationship, but they also need to be taken into account.
- Surprise. Relationship unexpectedly tied to both partners or one of them, and their friends and relatives. Surprise that these partners may be quite different in character, temperament, different socio-economic status, have a great difference in age. In another embodiment, the partners may know each other years, but the decision to get married and it turns unexpected continuation of the relationship. For example, many years just talking as friends, and then suddenly one night, the situation turns into a very intimate bed and then the young couple decides to get married.
- Quickness. Relationships formed after the period of very kratkog dating lovers (day, week, month). This is a situation where the partners as if condescending insight. Such relationships are often marked effect of hypnosis. They start so that people are not fully aware of the change and including only a year or more starts to see the situation deliberately. Prior to this, they are driven by the forces and reactions, which it attributed to the end can not. The question whether they want these partners to look at each other, "waking", often left open.
- Relocation. After marriage, spouses may move to another city or even abroad. Move somewhere far away after the meeting and marriage, open relationships, start a new life somewhere far away from the place of birth — is another important sign of karmic connection.
- Difficult situation. As the most popular option — partner drunk or drug addict partner. Maybe any health problems of marriage partners — life with a man in a wheelchair, mentally ill or early (before age 40) death of a partner. These relationships can certainly be described as "punishment." Apparently, this "punishment" his happy man himself, unconsciously choosing a partner problem. Most likely due to the latent feelings of guilt came from the past, but the question "for what reason" remains open. Or probably problematic partner attached to it on its genetic memory of a past life. Probably in the last incarnation of the problem and the role of good partner were opposed, and in the current incarnation, they change places and "restoring justice."
- No children in the marriage. This is an indicator of the future for the private generation through these people. These karmic relationship spouses are closed on itself and serve to reflect on their own character traits for both partners. To some extent, this relationship can be called a short circuit. They usually end up, years, or even almost immediately, are empty and lead to separation. This karmic link it all depends on how much each partner was "correct" in their actions. If the partners 'right' (in terms of Destiny and the Cosmos) manifested themselves in these respects, for example, did not complain and accuse each other of infertility, and adopted a child from an orphanage, then this pair may appear later and joint child. If the "right" tried to act only one of the partners, but may not receive the support, the award will give him the life of the other partner, with whom he had children.
- Fatality. Relationship in a pair marked a certain inevitability, predestination, often in a negative way in the style of "Tristan and Isolde." These include: the situation of the love triangle, the situation "impossible" love for some objective and subjective reasons, a love-hate situation, when it seems that life partners are fighting each other, and yet without each other, they are unhappy. They seemed to love each other, and the crazy hate. Or simply fate constantly brings partners together, whether they like it or not. A striking example — the characters of Alec Baldwin and Kim Basinger in the famous movie "The Marrying Man." In such a pair of karmic relationships little changes or can change — these relations as they ride on their preordained plan.
These options are the most basic, which describe exactly karmic relationship.
Karmic meeting, you can be identified by the fact that the other person seems unusually instantly familiar to you. Quite often there is a mutual attraction, something attractive "in the air" that forces you to be together and get to know each other. If possible, a strong attraction could turn into a love relationship. So often the case.
How long are the karmic relationship?
Depends on which kind of communication are your karmic relationship — for healing or destructive. A distinctive feature of the healing relationship is that to meet the man and woman feel soulmates, love and respect each other for what they are, without trying to change each other. They are a great pleasure to be with each other, but they do not feel anxiety, jealousy and loneliness, when a partner is not there. In such a relationship you have to offer understanding, support and encouragement favorite without trying to solve his or her problems, brought over from past lives. Relationships are full of freedom and peace. Of course, sometimes there are misunderstandings, but the emotions caused by short-lived. Both partners are willing to forgive. Between them is a heart connection. Both partners are emotionally independent. He or she does not fill the gap in my life, but on the contrary — add something new, important, vital. In the healing relationship partners can know each other in one or even several past incarnations. Two souls can know each other in a past life, which is also encouraged and supported each other. This gave rise to the inextricable link in the next few lives. This couple never part, not divorce ever. They will always be together and be happy. A marriage contracted with karmic partner may be a wonderful and amazing trip!
But it also happens that you experienced emotions about new love can be so crowded, that you think you've met your soul mate, kindred spirit. Beware! All can was not the case as it seems. If you have linked the unresolved emotional issues of the past, they will sooner or later resurface on the surface. Spiritual lesson to all souls connected in this way, is to let go of each other and become a free and independent beings. Mentioned in the above example of a jealous husband and wife blaming karmic relationships are almost never long, stable, loving. Often, the main purpose of the meeting — to release each other from that love.
If suddenly you find yourself in a relationship characterized by emotions that cause a lot of suffering and tears, but the break that you can not, try to understand that nothing obliges you to stay with that person. Understand that the most powerful emotions are related to the great suffering, not mutual love. The energy of love is not so emotional — it is very calm and serene, joyful and inspiring! It is not depressing, exhausting and tragic. If your relationship can be traced similar features, it's time to let go and not "work them" again.
Some women suffering from alcoholism in marriage or bad temper men convince themselves that they still need to stay together, because "it's fate" and to "pass it along." They appeal to karma as an argument for extending the relationship, but it distorts the concept. Karma individuality of each person, his karma can not go along with someone! Karma in the above relationship often requires you to be able to let go of a partner, refusing tormented relationship in order to understand that you are one-piece in itself.
Sometimes you are so connected with a complex partner emotionally hurt part inside him or her that you feel that you are the only one who can correct situation and save him or her out of trouble. But nothing good will come. You'll only reinforce feelings of powerlessness and the victim in the other person, while it would be useful to draw the line and stand up for themselves. Your mission — to be a free person. This type of painful relations may spiritually throw you back, and because it may happen that you will create a heavy karma for the next incarnation. You want it?
Perhaps you will be given only a few months out of the past to resolve the situation that exists between you and problematic partner. You can serve him or her in life any service which you feel obligated to do, but you do not have to involve yourself in relationships that are harmful to your spiritual growth. Love relationships are not meant to pull us down. When we love, we wholeheartedly want to support each other in happiness and sorrow, but we do not have to bear the whole burden of each other's problems.