Men’s patterns of behavior in a crisis thirtieth

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The proposed models of behavior — it is a kind of classification of development options and ways out of the crisis thirties. People are different behaviors, depending on the choices they made in the twenties. It is believed that the behavior of each model has its own set of psychological problems related to how effectively solves the problem of human development. Patterns of behavior of men can be divided into three main groups.

"Unstable". Such men are unwilling or unable to outline a solid reference points at 20 years of age to 30 years and continue experimenting youth. These are people who are capable of only limited emotional distress. They are grasping for that one thing, then another thing, do not bring to a conclusion. They do not have a clear idea of what kind of work they are involved, they do not tend to permanence.

The content of the 30th anniversary of the crisis is that people who have taken such a pattern of behavior, floating down the river and destroy themselves. They are like a hitchhiker on the road of life, not allowing yourself to find out what they really feel. The inner experience of this chaotic period.

In some people, these "unstable" model, the continuation of the experiments can be positive — but if it helps them to form the basis for further selection.

"Closed." This is the most common category. Such men peacefully, without crises and self-examination is scheduled solid guidance in the age of 20. People who adhere to this model are reliable, but is easily repressed. In search of the early stability are often subjected to serious assessment of their value system, which is based on their goals.

The content of the crisis: 30 years, such men may begin to regret not using their early years for research. People with bold looks can use the transition to the age of 30 for breaking the pattern "sense of duty" if the quarry, which they have made, they are not satisfied.

"Wonder Boys." Putting themselves at risk, and play to win, often believing that once they reach the top, their insecurities disappear. Wunderkind usually early succeeds, before peers overcomes heavy professional tests, although not always at the top, reaching her. These people are often blurred the line between work and personal life.

The content of the crisis, "geeks" are afraid to admit that not everyone knows. They are afraid to allow to approach someone very close to him. They are afraid that someone might laugh at them, exploit their weaknesses, and to limit the helpless little child.

There are four additional men's patterns of behavior that are rare.

"The old bachelor." Men over 40 who have never been married.

"Educators." See the meaning of life is to care about the community. Or devote himself to his family, though it is usually women's function.

"Hidden Children". Avoid the process of growing up and remain attached to their mothers, even as adults.

"Integrators". Trying to balance their ambitions with a sincere affection for the family, including the division of responsibilities for the care of children.

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