May 6, 2012 18:38
They lie in the flight of birds, the noise of the market square, scraps of conversation of strangers, lyrics from afar … a sign of destiny — everywhere! To see them, feel — so to hear their fate. Get a chance for personal happiness and success, your personal treasure map.
It would be nice if the signs of destiny did not hide from us. Say, look at the green light, and there is flashing: "Throw the job, start your own business." Or get out of the house and we find under the bed of the old bear, which is quite a man's voice said, "getting married to Petya, not Vasya." Everything is clear and understandable. And guess nothing. Although, who knows, maybe then we would be so obsessive tips shunned as from moralistic parents. And so it turns out that the universe we barely mentions. So quietly, tactfully advised. Do you want to — follow. And you want — pass by. It is better to hear and follow, hard to argue. After all, as a rule, the signs of destiny, like a compass, direct us to some very necessary to us purpose. True, the opposite may divert from that goal …
It would not be happy …
Many years ago, my friend Larissa was dating a guy who was considered eligible bachelor. A graduate of a prestigious university, Andrew immediately got a good job at a prestigious company, a decent salary. Could maintain a conversation on any topic, go to the gym, loved to travel. They all thought that Larissa and Andrew — a lovely couple, both beautiful, athletic, energetic. Like, seriously Andrew was fascinated by Larissa, and she loved him, and all around I think that it is going to a wedding. But something alarmed me Andrew. Then I could not clearly express their concerns, but you intuitively feel that his words to Larissa, slip some tough, power notki.No she even liked it, because the man in her opinion, there should be a share brutality.
Only one upset Larissa: each time before some major step in their relationship with her had trouble. Before talking with parents Andrew Larissa in fitness club hit the simulator so that they formed a black eye. Future in-law, seeing it with fingalom, pursed her lips and said dryly: "My dear, that you have to face?" Going to the first joint of Andrew's trip abroad, Larissa bad cold and most of the time she lay in a room, although generally very ill rare. When they came to apply to the registry office, Larissa could not find his passport, but has always been accuracy and composure. Andrew even began to suspect that she deliberately pulls the wedding, and they are serious quarrel. The second row has occurred when selecting style for wedding dresses. Andrew seemed to be too open neckline, and Larissa replied that she was not in the monastery. And though she eventually agreed to groom selected a style, something messed cutter and tailor a dress with a plunging neckline. This infuriated Andrew, they quarreled in the studio. This time, Larissa did not justify and explain that it is not her fault. She ran up to me in tears and said that the wedding is off, they parted forever with Andrew.
In order to comfort grief-stricken girlfriend, I persuaded her to go with me to the sea. On the way back to our compartment sat guy, and I immediately noticed that he did not take his eyes from the light tan and prettier Larissa. I even went out a few times to stand on the platform, so they can talk. And what happened? A year later they were married. Ten years Larisa and Paul live in a happy marriage, and they have two children. And about Andrew we recently learned that he had already twice divorced. Both of his ex-wife complained that the family was a tyrant and a despot, was not considered or whose opinion other than their own, the worst — would raise his hand to his wife.
— Fate took — then repeated Larissa.
It turns out my intuition did not deceive, the propensity for violence Andrei has always been. I do not know what to call all the luck that prevented a friend's wedding. Better than a sign of fate, perhaps, not name. After all, higher forces warned Larissa, it's not worth to connect the life with this man, and thank God that in the end she listened to them. Biographies of several people, including the inventor of the AJ-hearth Steve Jobs, who many years ago was fired from the Mac and he founded his own company, which in the end and bought a Mac, includes the words — "If I had not been fired then, I would not … "options are different — the meaning is:" What is done, all the better. " So, it appears that the trouble in our lives — it is such a magical, our defense, which on the one hand protects us, and on the other — makes you stronger.
Message of the dream
Solution of a complex issue can come to us when we sleep. A classic case — the periodic system of chemical elements, open Dmitri Mendeleev. Likewise, Robert Louis Stevenson saw the story of his work, "The Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde." Scientist Otto Loewy realized dream of the chemical nature of transmission of excitation in the nerve fiber. In the dream, the mechanics of Elias Howe had the idea to create a sewing machine. Mozart, Beethoven, Wagner, Saint-Saens dreamed of tunes that they recorded, waking up in the morning.
But the incident in the life of my parents. Father led large construction projects, and often lived for long periods away from home. Mom always missed him greatly, and often had a premonition of his coming, even if he did not tell her about it. Resorted work early, began to cook the cake. "How do you know that my father coming?" — I asked. "You'll laugh, but each time before his arrival, we sat on the ledge of a couple kissing doves" — my mother said. Ironically, usually doves on our eaves appear very rarely. One day my mother had a dream that my father lying on the grass, and sat on his chest and a huge bird does not give him up. "I think something happened to him," — said my mother. Telephone by the Pope in the office did not answer, and cell phones did not exist then. On the same day my mother got together and went to the Pope on the scene. It turned out that the dream was prophetic: the day before dad had a heart attack and was taken to the hospital. After her mother's arrival he was better.
Life — as a book for divination
Universe can give us signs, not openly, but through other people, their conversations around us through things and events, at first glance, completely random. Probably each of us wondered the book: you take that page is a page and a string to open and read what is written. Life — like a book that can suddenly open up any page that contains an omen sent for you. It should be just in time to hear and decode it.
Coincidence or a sign?
Once in the bookstore, I bought a book about the signs of destiny. In it, as in a dream book containing hundreds of different signs of fate with a detailed interpretation. Located right in alphabetical order.
Watermelon — a sign of imminent arrival of relatives
Acrobat — a dream come true at the moment can not be
Birch — if small — expect a quick resolution of the problem. If an old birch and dry — to checks at work.
And so to the end of the alphabet, represent? It turned out that virtually every object around me could be a sign of destiny. From this perspective dizzy, and the belief that there are signs of destiny at all — for a time of loss. Dry birch, circus acrobat, juicy watermelon — can all be signs sdby or not? How to distinguish normal from birch birch, so to speak, a sign? Coincidence or fate?
If you start to interpret every little event, then you can reach the point of absurdity, and even to a mental disorder. For example, if on the way to a date with the guy you ran across the road a black cat, it does not mean that we should turn back. Even if you crossed the road three black cats, maybe it's not omens, but in the fact that in your area a lot of black cats. Or what if the work is not included with the computer in the morning. This does not mean that we should give up work and go home. But if the other computer and you can not turn on, and it happens every day, you should consider — whether you want to work here? Maybe your The present-day duties hanging over you and subconsciously you've been conceived to look for something else? Then you've got it right: someone out there in the higher realms, pushes you to the decisive step, as if to say to you: "Come on, do it!". Signs of fate rarely "walk" on the single. Typically they exist in the system. One, two, three, as mycelium in the forest — you will find one otyschesh all. But to notice of, you need to change the usual focus, the usual view of the world, the usual route for the eyes and mind. In general, to begin to notice the signs of destiny — you need to change very little. "Today I am not the same as yesterday" — fun bouncing on stage singing Oleg Gazmanov. Well, we try not to be so. So, you will have a much better chance to see and feel the signs of destiny today if you:
— Make a new hairstyle
— Change your usual route from work to home to some other
— Dress up in something new
— Chat with new friends for you, or call the person whom did not speak for a year
— Rearrange the furniture in the apartment
— Often you look at the sky, and not under his feet, and so on
The list may be extended by your inspiration. Good movie, exhibition, music, any positive emotion — it is a wonderful magnet for signs of fate. Someone help charms (but sverekuplennye). Someone — cooking a new dish.
Your favorite rituals — aromatic baths, favorite TV series, a cup of coffee at your favorite cafe, a delicious cake with a cherry — undeniably beautiful. But they are the main enemies of signs of destiny. The actions that we repeat every day, comfortable for the psyche. But from the point of view of the small world — it is a matrix, which is surrounding us on all sides and ensuring predictability, actually deprives us daily nice bonuses and gifts of fate. So the first piece of advice for someone who wants to hear "the noise of Stars" and "Call of the universe" — goodbye to at least part of their favorite rituals. Thereby opening the door to change.
Why would it?
Another topic for research — is the interpretation of signs. You can certainly go to a fortuneteller or a psychic and shift the responsibility on them to ask — what is it today, you had a terrible dwarf. And you can "see" pochuvstovat decision itself. It is not too difficult. The criterion for the correctness of decoding these messages is often a sense of the importance of the life of opening or the sudden lightness in my soul — as if a heavy load off your shoulder, there was a light at the end of the tunnel. To exclaim: "How could I not realize this before! Here it is — my way! ". A walk along its track light and happy, even if it is not always a straight line.
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