Twenty years ago, the definition of "premature ejaculation (Premature Ejaculation) "Had a very clear options: all that lasted less than two minutes, automatically makes you a man who has sexual problems. A little later, the ratio of premature ejaculation has changed — now under her understand the condition in which Ejaculation occurs either before intercourse or immediately after it starts.
Alas, this is a problem "number one" in many men, and, as a rule, failures associated with premature ejaculation, then projected onto the entire sphere of private life.
Why is this happening?
In the vast majority of premature ejaculation is common in teenagers just starting sexual life. This is due to the excitement, with a high sensitivity of the glans penis, and therefore ejaculation often occurs either before the introduction of the penis into the vagina, or after just a few movements. Most often it passes quickly with experience sexual life, but may persist for a long time, especially in the case of psychological distress and failure.
Less often premature ejaculation quite common in mature males. It may continue to appear in adolescence or already in advanced age. It is usually caused by very different reasons.
All causes of premature ejaculation can be divided into two groups — physiological, that is associated with health problems or feature of the structure / function bodies, and psychological.
- hypersensitivity of the glans penis;
- chronic vesicles — an inflammation of the seminal vesicles, which accumulate sperm produced in the testes and other components of semen (vesicles never develop without prostatitis — inflammation of the prostate gland).
Increased sensitivity of the glans penis may be congenital or acquired. Acquired appears in the result of balanoposthitis or phimosis and occurs less frequently.
- Sometimes premature ejaculation occurs only because the man is afraid. Statistics also show that direct sexual intercourse lasts an average of no more than two minutes. And yet, this duration — very individual thing. However, without realizing it, many young people are being discouraged by the results of their sex from their very beginning. In fact, they are themselves dangerous enemies. They — the victims of the myth that passes from generation to generation, the myth that "the more, the better." However, their suffering is not less than the humiliation experienced in close proximity to a woman.
- Often premature ejaculation in young men is caused by the fact that they masturbate too vigorously, wanting as quickly as possible to achieve a happy outcome. However, they almost do not pay attention to the emotions that precede ejaculation, and this leads to the inability to recognize the feelings (and their own, and partner) before orgasm. That is, men suffering from this disease does not develop a normal sense of their own genitals: they simply do not know that I should feel man during a violent sexual arousal prior to orgasm.
More than two thousand years ago daoistskie doctors have written books that talked about love and sex. Sexual intercourse in these writings were considered as a necessary condition for the physical and spiritual health. Particular emphasis was placed on the technique of love, brought to a degree of art. In this case, the most important part was considered the control over ejaculation, which explains the existence in those days, a large number of benefits for the "young, novice habitation" on this side of the question.
According to the teaching of "Tao" man belongs to the beginning of "yang", whose feature is easy and fast excitation, which also takes place and. The woman belongs to the beginning of "yin" — it is raised slowly and slowly filled. In other words, men and women require different periods for both excitation and to achieve orgasm. And the task is about to equalize them, and ideally — to achieve the synchronization of these terms.
Try yourself to follow these ancient principles. The technique of "stop-start" allows you to get acquainted with the emotion of each of the partners arising before ejaculation. The idea is to take a man so close to ejaculate as much as possible, but do not cross the line that separates the highest stage of excitation of ejaculation. Young men who have to rediscover this truth, after all, learn to do it, and their reward will be a sense of acute pleasure.
In principle, there is also an option: leather phallus head, devoid of the foreskin becomes rougher and less sensitive to friction during stimulation, which pushes the onset of orgasm in men. It can therefore be recommended to those who suffer from premature ejaculation to be circumcised.
In any case, do not suffer alone — it is better to seek solution to a sex therapist, which can give good advice. After the initial assessment, you may need examination andrology and urology, as well as researching your hormonal profile.