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Shibari (or Sibari) — Japanese art of erotic rope binding. The word in Japanese means «to bind, tie; enough to arrest. » Sometimes practicing shibari get pleasure from the process of binding, in other cases, it ends the sexual act.

Shibari — it is amazingly beautiful. Photographs of models, braided rope, fascinating. Chubby and slender, with a pear-shaped figure with the figure or not fledging teenager — woman, braided network of ropes, seem fragile and delicate, sensual and passionate. Their bodies — like entangled in a web. Patterns of nodules bizarre shackle arms, chest, thighs and abdomen. Models sit or lie, but in some -podvesheny air. And, it seems, is about to appear huge spider, who managed to catch in their nets a female human …

When you look at photos of shibari does not appreciate the beauty of what you see is simply impossible. Masters with a rope shibari can do with the body of the girl anything. Most pictures are full of eroticism is not vulgar. For a long time no one is confused body art -kartiny on human bodies. Shibari — is also a picture -from bodies, ropes and anything else not immediately perceptible.

To try to understand, then there is a catch, what else hides a shibari, you need to meet with someone who can do it — with the girls — and those of their associates. The most interesting thing would be to talk to the Japanese, but, as explained to the Russian masters, grandparents shibari nobody opened their own attitudes and essentially embedded in the art. And then there is the first question. Shibari — erotic art, spiritual practice, a form of sex play or rejection?

For a moment forget the Japanese. And without them, around the world known for other sexual practices. It is called simply — bondage (in English the «relationship, bondage»). That is also one of the binding partners. What is different from shibari bondage? The answer is boring if you are not Japanese, the difference will be for you only in the beauty of knitting. Any additional meaning in shibari you can put on svoeusmotrenie. Everyone in today’s Russia is engaged in shibari, he understands it as he wants.

Among the artists with whom I was able to meet, there are those who do not make distinctions between shibari and bondage at all; but there are also those who consider Shibari special art, which you can comprehend the mystery all his life. For some of the men having sex with related models — a natural part of Shibari; others claim that the exchange of energy between a man and a woman should not be confused with carnal pleasures.

Interestingly, based on the words of my interlocutors they somehow practiced various forms of BDSM. In most cases, seeing a man practicing bondage and shibari you in anything he does not suspect. Unless your meeting did not take place in a specialized institution. In everyday life, these people seldom go to extremes: they do not go to work in the collars do not show all of footprints left on the body after the role-playing games with whips. Only they, by their own confidence can distinguish themselves in the crowd of similar. If you are not «in the subject line,» ie, an ordinary man, they will call you a «vanilla», regardless of gender. Those who are engaged in various forms of bondage, divided into «upper» -dominiruyuschih — and «lower» -podchinyayuschihsya. However, all is not well recorded.

«Bottom»:

— It’s amazing how sometimes the «upper» feels fine «bottom»! When you look at it during some bondage-fest, simply breathtaking — he is gentle with her as attentive. And just envy takes — as she is well. It is a fantastic feeling. I myself — «lower». It is very difficult to describe what you feel when you connect it some unity. Passion and unity.

«Upper»:

— Feeling his «bottom», to feel physically feedback — it feels pleasure from what you do — this is the most important thing.

In Shibari great importance is attached to the ropes with which associated «lower.» They should not slide over the skin, leaving no scars, they must be strong enough to withstand the weight of the girls, and wide enough to not dig into her body. Safety is given great importance — no one longs for murder. By linking, you need to understand if you’re not hurt your partner. What are the veins and blood vessels will overtensioned? How long can I leave the girl in that position? Those who have long been familiar with shibari, studying anatomy to improve their skills, and often complain of newbies who forget about the health of their «lower».

«Upper»:

— At some point, you see — p-p-p-times! Impulse! The signal! You could feel the impact of the «lower», she «floated». She trusts you …

«Lower»:

— The world is simply cease to exist for you. It is stronger orgasm. Because suddenly erased border: your systems, your fears go, everything is connected in an incredible pleasure.

Almost always they talk about trust, about the care and love that arises when Ople-plants are, the feeling of unity with the partner and the world, about the sense of obedience and freedom, no -Exemption. Their eyes shine. And at some point you, the observer, ready to believe that there is a kind of special, available only elected pleasure.

Longing for intimacy.

Hamburg sexological institution adopted six criteria of normal sexual relations in the pair: the partners must be of different sexes, they must be socially mature, there must be mutual agreement on everything that happens in this pair, and the mutual desire for mutual pleasure, lack of damage to health, and the lack of harm to other people.

Formally shibari does not go beyond these standards. After all participants have agreed on a form of pleasure. But the extent to which you need to feel useless to seek the warmth and intimacy in a relationship in such a way? Beautiful pictures, beautiful bodies, many hours of the session, heartfelt description of unity, energy, subconscious reaction. Behind this facade — a passionate desire in any way, to forget for a while by a nagging inner pain, warped «world view» unnecessary, fear of the open, trusting each, a longing for intimacy.

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